Do you know you have asked for the costliest thing ever made by the hand above – a woman’s heart, and a woman’s life, and a woman’s wonderful love? – Mary T Lathrop
To love and be loved in return is the greatest feeling there can ever be. It is a feeling that exudes some of the most powerful life changing qualities – Confidence, Courage, Determination.
I love it when people are not afraid to express their feelings for that special one in their lives. While some pride themselves in being poetic and can play with words (which is really romantic….Lol..), others express themselves better in actions and some others still, do both.
Whichever method is most comfortable for you, expression of love for another is a most beautiful thing especially between a man and a woman.
However the true love of a woman is one that is so pure and true and just as Fawn Weaver said, “…….if you love, nurture, cherish and protect her heart, she will give you the world”.
She can do anything and give anything to see her man happy and successful. She would push him to be the best of who he is and to live life greatly because she believes in him.
She would take it upon herself to heal the pains of his past and make the rest of his days filled with happiness, joy, laughter and love.
She guards him. She protects him. She tries her best to shelter him from hurts, pains, unhappiness.
She would make him feel like the most wonderful and perfect man on earth. She would place the world at his feet because she truly loves him with her whole being and her intentions are pure.
Sometimes, man seems overwhelmed by this show of emotion especially if they haven’t experienced it before and may not understand it.
DUDE, A WOMAN’S LOVE ISN’T ROCKET SCIENCE.
A woman’s heart is a deep ocean of beautiful emotions seeking a way out to be expressed to someone else. Her natural abilities to love and nurture come into full play and she instinctively becomes a whole new being especially when same love is reciprocated back to her.
She may have experienced hurts and pains in the past. The heart she now offers to you is not a perfect one but one that has been shattered over and over again but still, she loves as though it was her first time.
That is the strength of a woman’s heart….not matter how many times it gets broken, it can still perfectly love again.
No matter how complicated she gets as a result of her past, the hidden simplicity in her still surfaces and makes her absolutely adorable. She is and remains an endless pool of love when her emotions are in full gear and she loves the right person.
She gives real meaning to the words of David J.Wolpe who said, “The only whole heart is a broken one because it lets the light in”.
She believes in the power of love and that no matter what, love always wins.
What makes her blossom in full into the most beautiful and perfect swan in the lake is when her man loves her just as much.
All she desires is that man values her, respects her and helps her be the best of who she is as well. She wants him to place her on a high pedestal of true affections.
She knows she isn’t perfect and has so many flaws but still she gives her best to living each day in happiness and love. She knows she can be better and is determined to be.
John Steinbeck said, “I believe a strong woman may be stronger than a man, particularly if she happens to have love in her heart. I guess a loving woman is indestructible.”
Coming together from two different backgrounds and finding a common ground on which to exist upon is the true essence of togetherness, companionship, partnership and friendship.
Giving room to agree to disagree and vice versa, loving her even when you are upset, giving her a tight hug as she runs to you with her hair in a mess, no makeup and the first thing you say to her is, “You are beautiful” is a woman’s world.
Someone said to guys, “If a girl takes her makeup off around you, has her hair in a mess around you, even when she is in her worst state, she loves you”. She wants to be who she is with you. She wants you to see and appreciate her natural beauty.
Always say what you mean to her and mean what you say. Remember that whatever you tell a woman stays long in her heart and when she feels appreciated, she will always do more than what is expected.
Never lie to her or take her for a fool. I love the quote that says, “Silence is a girl’s loudest cry. You know she is really hurting when she starts ignoring you”. Talk to her often. Always make your intentions known and clear.
Give her attention and get to understand her heart. If you treat her right, she would open up to you and give all of herself to you. Just treat her right.
Dude, if you love, then do so wholeheartedly. If you love with just a part of you, then what is the remaining part of you for?
Loving a woman truly is something worth experiencing. Nothing that sticks with true love ever goes wrong. They say whatever is worth doing is worth doing well, right? So if you want to love, then love with all your heart.
So, beautiful and exquisite ladies, “Don’t allow anyone to take you for granted. You are just too valuable not to be appreciated”. Learn to love and appreciate yourself so man can love and appreciate you. Never sell yourself short.
If a relationship is not working and you are positive you have put in your very best and gave it your all, my dear, quietly take a bow. Don’t continue hosing or irrigating a dead flower. He may not just be the right one for you.
He may be the “John the Baptist” that has come to pave the way for “Jesus” to come. Hence, we meet people for different reasons – they are either a blessing or a lesson.
I guess that’s why a wise one said, “We don’t meet people by accident, they are meant to cross our path for a reason”. If it doesn’t work, then move on. Another person said, “Moving on doesn’t mean you forget about things. It just means you have to accept what happened and continue living”.
You are exquisite! You are beautiful! You are amazing! Never see yourself or allow yourself to be short of these. Clear out the past, layout the present and prepare for a much better and brighter future.
A woman wants to be a Princess to her Prince; she wants to be a Queen to her King. She wants the magic. She wants to feel really loved and special. She wants to feel like she is one in a million. She wants the attention. She wants to be treated like she means the world to her man.
Women, how can you get a man to value and appreciate your love? Watch out for the part 2 of this series. I am going to teach you how to do this.
Thanks so much for reading this. Find it interesting? I would love to read your thoughts and comments on this.
LET THE CONVERSATIONS BEGIN!!!!!